when things get bad you should just get out of the immediate vicinity! RUN! LEAVE!
when things get really bad it is best to just give up and forget that you even were involved.
start a new life somewhere. it can be fun! you can reinvent yourself or just try to be like the way that you were in your most favorite memories of yourself when you felt cool and confident.
maybe it takes some time, but isn't it worth it? it is something you want to be doing anyways, in your secret compartment of your mind.
learn a new language, grow or cut your hair.
wear clothes you feel good in.
don't wear clothes.
whatever you want to do now you can because you are starting over!